What I learned about Courage

The dictionary definitions are:

Bravery: quality of spirit that enables you to face danger of pain without showing fear.
Fortitude: the habit of encountering danger and enduring pain with a steadfast and unbroken spirit.
Courage: firmness of spirit and swell of soul which meets danger without fear.

My definition is:

· Courage is believing in your self.
· Courage is ripping off the bandaid.
· Courage is depending on your little sister.
· Courage is trying again.
· Courage is smiling at a stranger.
· Courage is being the new girl in class.
· Courage is forgiving someone who hurt you.
· Courage is falling in love.

There came a time when the risk to remain tight in the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.
Anais Nin

· Courage is saying no when you need to.
· Courage is admitting your weaknesses. I remember my big strong father taking swimming lessons with me when I was 5 years old. He was deathly afraid of water. I still remember watching him him accross the pool slowly easing his way into the shallow water, silently cheering him on. Thanks Dad.
· Courage is taking responsibility for your actions.
· Courage is admitting that you cant afford it.
· Courage is not giving in to pressure.
· Courage is singing the song even though you dont know all the words.
· Courage is dreaming.

What would you attempt to do if you knew you could not fail?
Marinnne Williamson

· Courage is learning.
· Courage is watching your sister move far away. And letting her take your nephews.
· Courage is ignoring all the naysayers and critics.
· Courage is sharing your soul.
· Courage is planting a flower in a dump. In a township in South Africa, amist all the broken down shantys and trash, a patch of green caught my eye. One family had planted flowers and vines and shrubs all around their tiny yard even partially covering the makeshift corregated iron made house. Carefully tended to and trimmed, a great sense of dignity and hope shone forth from this home. Mom, it reminded me of your little white picket fence. Altho they kept trampling the flowers, you just kept planting them. Now I understand.
· Courage is crying instead of holding it all in.
· Courage is speaking up when its not the popular opinion.

One’s real life is often the life that one does not lead.
Oscar Wilde

· Courage is saying goodbye.
· Courage is trying it anyway even though you know you will look silly.
· Courage is attending a funeral.
· Courage is wishing on a shooting star.
· Courage is righting a wrong.
· Courage is going shopping for your first bra.
· Courage is taking the risk.
· Courage is leaving an unhealthy relationship.
· Courage is trying a food you have never seen before.
· Courage is being different.

The meaning I picked, the one that changed my life: Overcome fear, behold wonder.
Richard Bach

· Courage is asking for clarification.
· Courage is reading someone your poem.
· Courage is a child leading a blind man.
· Courage is sending Happy Belated Birthday wishes.
· Courage is changing a dirty diaper.
· Courage is admitting you dont know.
· Courage is sitting still and just being.
· Courage is having dessert for breakfast.
· Courage is holding your head up high.
· Courage is admitting you made a mistake.

The man who makes no mistakes does not usually make anything.
Bishop WC Magee

· Courage is saying I love you.
· Courage is not compromising your self.
· Courage is buying condoms.
· Courage is perservering when it gets difficult.
· Courage is trusting a stranger.
· Courage is getting on the plane.
· Courage is saying thank you when someone compliments you.
· Courage is finding light in darkness.
· Courage is disciplining your nephew even tho they ‘wont be your friend anymore’.
· Courage is making your own path.

It takes alot of courage to release the familiar and seemingly secure, to embrace the new…There is more security in the adventurous and exciting, for in movement there is life, and in change there is power.
Alan Cohen

· Courage is laughing with your self in the mirror.
· Courage is letting your sister borrow your stuff.
· Courage is not knowing where your going but going anyway.
· Courage is asking for help.
· Courage is admitting to yourself that you ARE beautiful.
· Courage is watching your last child leave home.
· Courage is taking the last peice of cake.
· Courage is taking the first step.
· Courage is being alone sometimes.

Ultimately we know deeply that the other side of every fear is a freedom.
Marilyn Ferguson

· Courage is letting someone else do it for you.
· Courage is going to the dentist for a toothache.
· Courage is asking for that raise.
· Courage is hugging your mom in front of your friends when your a teenager. I ran into my mom in the mall one day during my lunch break with my friends. She hugged me and then proceeded to hug each one of my friends as well. Then to my horror she hugged this random stranger that was just walking by. Embarrassed, I lowered my voice and informed her that he wasnt with us. She just shrugged and said, ‘Oh well, he looked like he needed a hug anyway.’ Thanks Mom.
· Courage is cutting off your hair.
· Courage is saying thank you to the janitor.
· Courage is sitting down when everyone else is standing up.
· Courage is showing someone your drawing.
· Courage is going home.

Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didnt do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbour. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.
Mark Twain

So all this time I didnt really think I knew much about courage. Turns out I was brave all along. I have been learning it my whole life from all the people around me. Just because you don’t feel brave, doesn’t mean you arn’t.

Courage is a lion
Courage is a mouse
Courage is the step you take
When you dare to leave your house

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